Surviving Holiday Stress By Michael Reading, MS, NCC, LMHC Director, Crisis Services - Crisis Clinic
At this time of the year we can turn on the radio and hear songs with lyrics like: "Tis the season to be jolly" and
"It's the most wonderful time of the year," yet for many people, this time of the year is less than jolly or joyful.
Stress comes in many forms in our daily lives and takes on additional meanings during holiday times.
Do a Google search of "holiday stress" and your stress level may increase just by the myriad of information
you will find.
Mental Health America conducted an attitudinal survey in October 2006 on Holiday Stress. The Executive Summary of the
survey tells us that the three top holiday stressors among Americans are:
finances (40%); memories of loved ones who passed away (37%) and having too much to do (34%).
Stress affects us in many ways mentally, emotionally and physically. Mental affects may include: anxiety,
restlessness, irritability, worry, depression or anger. Emotional or behavioral affects may include: over/under
eating, alcohol/drug abuse, isolation, relationship conflicts. Physical affects may include: headache, back/chest
pain, heart disease, high blood pressure, upset stomach, weakened immune system.
The good news is we can be in control by focusing on some healthy techniques to help reduce holiday stress and
achieve a healthier well-being. Here are some helpful tips:
Finances: Plan a budget and stick to it. Before you go shopping, decide how much you can afford to spend;
then stick to your plan. Remind yourself that you cannot buy happiness through multiple gifts. Think about
alternatives such as homemade gifts that create a meaning or memory, or donating to a favorite charity or cause in
someone's name.
Memories of loved ones who passed away: If you are feeling lonely, sad or isolated; reach out to
others. Turn to other loved ones who you can share good memories with or a trusting friend who can offer support.
Seek out a community, spiritual practice or social events you can identify with. Volunteer your time to help others who
are in need. If sadness or anxiety persists, seek professional help. Talk to your doctor or a mental health
practitioner.
Having too much to do: Plan ahead for time to shop, bake, visit family/friends and other activities you want
to enjoy. Be realistic and realize that there may be a new way of spending your time and it does not have look like
last year. Most importantly, don't forget to breathe and take time for yourself. Because it is time for the holidays
does not mean there is no time to tend to yourself as you would the rest of the year.
We are pleased to welcome Michael Reading, the new Director of Crisis Services at Crisis Clinic. Michael comes
to us from Community Psychiatric Clinic where he was the Division Director of Residential Services and was
responsible for the housing and care of 668 severely mentally ill person and all 40 residential properties that
include five 24-hr supervised settings, as well as the directing the mental health services needed by residents.
Winter Weather Disaster Info Needed
In the event of a disaster this winter (such as a snow or wind storm), the 2-1-1 Community Information Line will need organizations
to keep us informed about the availability of programs, hours of operation and any other critical information.
Please call us anytime, 24/7/365 and leave a voicemail at (206) 436-2992 during a disaster to report changes in your programs.
The Washington State Department of Social and Health Services (DSHS)
is replacing the current Medicaid Management Information System with a new payment processing system named
ProviderOne. ProviderOne will be the primary provider payment processing system for DSHS sometime in the beginning of 2010.
For more information on the launch date,
visit: http://hrsa.dshs.wa.gov/providerone.
KCBA Self-Help Plus is open again and
has a few changes to their program. They are still assisting with uncontested dissolutions and establishing a
parenting plan, but they are not able to assist with child support or parenting plan modifications at this time.
The Seattle Animal Shelter adoption services, animal shelter and licensing programs are no longer operating on Mondays.
Due to budget cuts, they are now operating Tuesdays through Sundays.
King County Metro Bus has a new system where you can sign up for changes to bus routes due to adverse weather. You
can sign up for updates at: http://metro.kingcounty.gov/up/rr/adverseweather.html.
Also posted are alternate routes in case of
such an event. It would be good to check these out ahead of time so that you know where to catch the bus in an emergency.
December and January Resources This column highlights timely resources in the community information database that might otherwise go unnoticed
by our users. It is always recommended to check
Community Resources Online for additional information and
for the most current information concerning the following resources.
December Resource Highlights
For up-to-date information on December holiday events and resources, please call 2-1-1 and talk with an Information
& Referral Specialist. Dial 2-1-1 or (206) 461-3200, Toll Free (800) 621-4636 TTY (206) 461-3610 M-F, 8am-6pm.
Public Health is opening four free H1N1 vaccine clinics for people at highest risk and who can't afford to pay,
on Saturday, December 5, 9am-5pm and Wednesday, December 9, noon-7pm. Future clinic dates will be
scheduled as more vaccine becomes available. Vaccinations are first come, first served, and no reservations will be taken. For more information, visit the Public
Health H1N1 influenza website for updates on vaccine availability in the community
or call the Flu Hotline at 877-903-KING (5464). Vaccine clinics are located at: Columbia Public Health (4400 37th Ave S, Seattle), Renton Public Health (3001 NE 4th St, Renton), North Public Health (10501 Meridian Ave N, Seattle), Federal Way Public Health (33431 13th Place S, Federal Way).
Medicare Part D annual open enrollment will end on Thursday, December 31. Medicare beneficiaries who
have not previously signed up for a Part D plan and those applying for Part D for the first time must choose a plan
by the deadline. Open enrollment is also the time that beneficiaries who are signed up for Part D can change
plans for the new year, 2010. For more information, call Medicare (800) MEDICARE or the Statewide Health Insurance
Benefits Advisors Help Line (SHIBA) at (800) 562-6900 or visit
www.medicare.gov.
Toys for Tots is partnering with King County Community Service Offices to distribute toys this holiday season.
DSHS will make a list of clients on public assistance who are active, pending or recently closed as of Dec. 11 and
provide that list to Toys for Tots. Toys for Tots Marines will pass out toys at the CSO offices the week of Dec. 14.
A schedule of when toy distribution will be at the various offices has not yet been created. There will be an additional
toy distribution event for those who cannot pick up toys the week of Dec. 14.
January Resource Highlights
Friends of Francois
provides a hot New Year's Day dinner for anyone in need. Meal is served outdoors, at Seattle's Outdoor Meal Site.
Site is located under I-5, which offers shelter in wet weather. Bench seating is available.
DSHS - Health & Recovery Services Administration - State Children's Health Insurance Program (SCHIP) offers
health coverage to children younger than age 19 who live in households with income between 200 and 250 percent (in January,
2009 the eligibility rises to 300 percent) of the federal poverty level (FPL). SCHIP is a non-entitlement program in
Washington state. Eligibility is determined using the same rules as medical coupons (Medicaid) for children, except
with higher income standards.
Apply online or pick up application at local DSHS Community Services Office.
Seattle Indian Center Summer Youth Employment Experience offers a limited number of work experience positions
during the summer months to eligible high school students. Interested parties should contact the Workforce Investment
Act office in January for further information.
United Way Tax Preparation offers free walk-in tax preparation and filing from January 13 to April 15, 2009. Also
helps tax payers file for the Earned Income Tax Credit, Child Tax Credit and Telephone Tax Refund. Prepares basic
individual tax returns only.
Washington Women in Need provides financial aid for tuition and books for up to two years of approved course work
at accredited schools in the state of Washington. Applications for the next opening for the education grant will be
available on the Web site for
two days (Jan. 12&13, 2010), beginning at 8am.
Foreclosure and First-Time Homebuyer Workshops
Thursday, Dec 3, 5-8pm
Federal Way City Hall, Council Chambers,
33325 8th Ave S, Seattle
The City of Federal Way is offering a resource fair to first-time homebuyers and those facing foreclosure. First-Time
Homebuyers workshops will be held at 5, 6 and 7pm. Avoiding Foreclosure workshops will be held at 5:30, 6:30 and
7:30pm. For more information on these programs,
e-mail Kolya McCleave or call her at (253) 835-2653; or
email Jennifer Teeler
or call her at (253) 835-2653.
The City of Federal Way will announce the launch of its "House Key Federal Way" down payment assistance program to
help 129 low- to moderate-income home buyers purchase foreclosed or bank-owned homes in designated areas of Federal
Way. For more information about this program, visit the Washington State Housing Finance Commission Web site
www.wshfc.org or call (800) 767-4663.
Free Citizenship Information and Legal Assistance Workshops
Thursday, Dec 3, 5:30-7:30pm
Rainier Beach Library 125 Rainier Ave S, Seattle
Languages: English, Lao, Somali, Oromo, Amharic, Tigrigina and Vietnamese
Thursday, Dec 10, 1:30-3:30pm
Beacon Hill Library 2821 Beacon Ave S, Seattle
Languages: Chinese, English, Thai, Somali, Spanish and Vietnamese
Saturday, Dec 12, 10am-3pm
Greenbridge Library & Jim Wiley Community Center 9720 8th Ave SW, Seattle
Languages: Chinese, English, Khmer, Somali, Spanish and Vietnamese
The workshops will feature presentations by Library staff members and immigration experts. An immigration lawyer or
Bureau of Immigration Appeals (BIA) accredited advocate will be able to provide advice and answer questions from
participants. Private consultations with the attorney will be available during the last part of the workshop.
Participants will be given free naturalization information booklets and N-400 naturalization application forms.
For more information or assistance in
other languages, call The Seattle Public Library at 206-386-4148 or email
worldlanguages@spl.org.
Free Foreclosure Prevention WorkshopSaturday, Dec 5 9am-5pm Cleveland High School
5511 15th Ave S Learn the steps to keeping or saving your home from the risk of foreclosure. Get answers
from government agencies, lenders and no-profits. Discuss refinancing or modifying your loans. Must bring photo ID,
SS card, closing documents, last year's W-2 and tax returns and last two pay stubs. For more information, or to
print a flyer, click here.
Hanukkah Pajama Jam Sunday, Dec 6, 12:30-4pm
Stroum Jewish Community Center
3801 East Mercer Way, Mercer Island
The Jewish Federation and Stroum JCC are excited to host the first-ever Hanukkah Pajama Jam, a free event especially
designed for families with young children. Come to the Hanukkah Pajama Jam and
connect with friends over live music, arts and crafts, storytelling, Hanukkah nosh and more! The attire for this
event is pajamas, so please come elegantly dressed in your finest PJs.
Seattle HIV/AIDS Community Town Hall
Wednesday, Dec 9, 6:30-8:30pm Asian Counseling and Referral Services
3639 MLK Jr. Way S, Seattle
Join Assistant Secretary of Health (DHHS), Dr. Howard Koh and Director Christopher Bates (Office of HIV/AIDS Policy)
at the Community Town Hall on National AIDS Policy. For more information and to RSVP, contact Lauren Broussard at
(202) 260-8863 or Lauren.Broussard@hhs.gov.
24-Hour Crisis Line
(206) 461-3222 (866) 4CRISIS or (866) 427-4747 (206) 461-3219 TTY 24 hours, daily
Business Office
(206) 461-3210 Fax: (206) 461-8368 M-F, 8am-5pm Info@CrisisClinic.org
2-1-1 Community Information Line
Dial 2-1-1 or (206) 461-3200 (800) 621-4636 (206) 461-3610 TTY M-F, 8am-6pm
Teen Link
(206) 461-4922 (866) TEENLINK or (866) 833-6546 (206) 461-3219 TTY 6-10pm, nightly TeenLink@CrisisClinic.org
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